tips on becoming a good mother

yeayyy! the much much awaited weekend's finally here.there's just soo much to do, bingo of a plan A and B next, which eventually, in the end of the day, realise not much has been done. pull down with dissapointment.

rather how, as i was clicking on the explorer, found this very-much-related article on tips becoming a good mother..leisure reading on friday-noon.no alamanda this week.. :) had enuff of alamanda for the week.i believe definitely all the sane-mother on the planet would make up their effort in becoming one..at least i do.. How to be a good mother? Many women do not have any clue on what traits make a good mother. Sometimes, what you feel good may not be necessarily good for the child. Thus, here are some good Qualities or characteristics to develop to be a good mother to your child.

Set a good Example: Since the mother is the most important person in the life of a child it is important for her to be a positive and moral role model and example that the can look up to, appreciate and honor. Whatever the child observes from her, such as her housekeeping habits, her manners, her relationships with others, the way she spends money and in general her lifestyle, will all undoubtedly affect the child’s character.

Be there for the Child: In the initial years of childhood the child needs the mother more. It is very important for the child to spend quality time with the child. It is okay to be a friend or buddy to your child but remember that ultimately you are their parent and it is your responsibility to provide them moral and ethical guidance. A good mother is compassionate and gentle but firm in discipline

Love and Patience: A mother’s love is unmatched. Remember that a mother carried you in her womb, fed you and protected you even when she was in pain and suffering even before you were not born. To a good mother you are special no matter you are young or old, healthy or handicapped, troublesome or obedient.

Be a Good Listener: A good mother is a good listener as well. She spends quality time with her children and patiently listens to them when they talk and give them quality advice and help them in negative circumstances. A good mother is always an approachable person for a child to talk

Responsibility: It is said that motherhood is a full time career. If you have brought the child to the world then also be ready to accept the responsibilities that comes along with motherhood.

                                       

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till then. happy weekend everyone.