Jodoh itu rahsia Allah..
SELAMA mana anda setia...
SEHEBAT mana anda merancang...
SEDETIK lebih anda menunggu...
SETABAH mana anda bersabar...
SEJUJUR mana anda menerima dirinya...
Jika ALLAH Tidak Menulis Jodoh Anda Bersama Si Dia, Anda Tetap Tidak Akan Bersama.
i found this on someone's fb status so i thought of writing something related.
cousin of mine, named SHE who's wedding is suppose to be in next week (20th Jan 2012), gotta find out her 6 years boyfie of beloved fiance is actually someone's else's husband couples of days before. now how's that? Can one imagine the wound SHE's bearing right now? It's like life salvaging. A totally terror wash out. No any sane living woman would want to continue the matrimonial in given circumstance i suppose. So SHE made up her mind vividly clear, no more drawback to call off the wedding.
With all the preps 90% done, invitations sent out to neighbours and friends, event's created on fb, house were even painted new.. what is there left for her except for tears being in deep cut. The morning SHE broke the news (on Tuesday), i couldn't help holding tears myself. In the first place i thought SHE was making up craps (since the wedding is nearing so i thought SHE might have caught the wedding bug syndrome). But way to my disappointment, nothing of a kind. It's the hurting truth she's prevailing.
I am still dumbstruck in awe, fail to believe it's happening. After all this time, ramblings of a girl dating another girls' husband or - i only see the story lines on TV, never came across to mind that it'll happen in the family. poor SHE. Courage and utmost support is all she need from family and friends. To SHE, i know it's easy said than done but believe me, Allah knows best! Allah has made plans for you. All you need to do is keep walking and never look back. InsyaAllah the rainbow prevails after all the rain sheds.
Jodoh itu adalah rahsia Allah..
oh my jaja. this is such a deep cut story. i feel so sorry for your cousin. she must be strong to go on with the wedding. how long has this guy been married?
ReplyDeletei feel so sad reading this jaja. so SHE is going ahead with the wedding huh? hmm... she must really love him then. if this were to happen to me, i would cancel right away. ye la kan, the guy bole tipu for years, i just can't bear living with somebody like that. not knowing dia tipu or not. when the trust is gone, that's it la. sometimes i feel some men just don't deserve... i geram btul jaja.
ReplyDeletexetxet:no no, she call it off.cancel.x jadi kawen..so now the parents tgh sibuk uruskan pembatalan.sedey u.evrytime i pegi rumah die, mesti nanges tgk die.(dah la mmg kuat nanges kan?:p)
ReplyDeleteanis:they call off the wedding.x jadi..now dah pegi batal e'yhing!the guy nak continue sbb die bajet ombak rindu bole handle 2 bini tp of course la my cousin ni xnak..(who wants kan?).memang geram anis dgn laki ni.kot la die drive 5 series,bekeyakinan la jugak mampu nak tanggung dua bini..tapi ni myvi pun kdg2 skip bayar.umur baru 26/27 mcm tu.dah nak kawen dua?x sedar diri sungguh kan!
oh, thank goodness. i thought she went on with the wedding. this is insane! for 6 years this guy practically lied to her. where's the trust in the r'ship? it will really take time for her to heal. kalau laki tu nak bayar kete pun tak mampu, mcm mana nak jaga 2 bini?? i believe your cousin made the right decision. i doakan that she will find a better man than him.
Deleteyes, i agree. thank goodness SHE cancelled. lelaki mcm tu elok dijauhkan. i doakan all the best for SHE. Allah tidak akan menguji hambanya melebihi kemampuannya. so i know SHE is a strong person.
DeleteJot, from the day you told me your cousin's story sampai la today, I am still SHOCKED. That guy led her on for like eight months or so after they tunang, let her plan the wedding and kept his marriage a secret from her all the while! Terrible lah!
ReplyDeleteBut I am so proud of your cousin! Thank goodness she called the wedding off! Dunno what lies lagi he will tell, that nasty guy! I pray she will find the right man, someone who loves her deeply!
ps: He deserved the slap!